Quick Question its a random question

I always wanted to know what age is the right age to get married? Just a random question. Me and My boyfriend of 4 years almost (be 4 years in August of this Year) wanted to get married in 7 months but we decided to get married in 2010 when I'm 23 and he's 24. It's not that I don't want to marry him its because i do but I just want to know what age is to the right age to get married?

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Permalink Reply by Jennifer Green on February 20, 2009 at 4:00pm: ok no offense but yall r aggravating me now

Permalink Reply by Michael J on February 20, 2009 at 5:25pm: Jen,
There is a problem with the question that you want answered. You are wanting to have a specific age, and the problem is that there is none. There needs to be a maturity in both individuals in order to help the marriage work, but only one two can decide for sure if you are there. I would also ask close friends/family that know both of you to help gauge that level as well. All in all, it is your decision, and only you can decide if the timing/age is correct. Please do not think that I am not answering your question, because several other people have said the same thing. Realize that though you are wanting a more specific of an answer, there isn't one.
Blessings,
Michael J

Permalink Reply by Godwin Yakwo on February 21, 2009 at 11:26am: Hi Jen, sorry if my comments were a bit harsh, i guess i have a little bit of Dr. Phil in me. I hope you find the answer to your question. God bless you.

Permalink Reply by Kaela on February 22, 2009 at 3:02am: Hi Hun,

Getting married is YOUR joint decision so there really is no 'right' or 'wrong' here, it's about finding a time where it feels right for you as a couple. You've been together a good, long time now and if you want to begin your new life with this man, then it's up to you both when you step out into this world as Man and Wife. I think if you truly love each other, then there is no age. It's very acceptable for people in thir 20's to get married, My mother was just 20 when she married my father and they've been together 26 years this year.

Pray on the matter and seek your heart's answer.

God Bless You Both,

Michaela x

Permalink Reply by Donna on July 4, 2009 at 4:10am: When you get married young, you have the energy to be involved in your childrens lives, however do you have enough money to take care of them properly? When you wait till you're older do you have the time or energy or must you pay someone to care for them while you earn a living?
Marriage is a commitment not only to each other but also to the children you bring into the world. There is no magical age. But if the two of you are Christ centered and committed to Him, it will be alright.